| Location | Indianapolis Indiana |
| Age | 23 days |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 14/06/2007 |
| Date of Death | 07/07/2007 |
| Visitors | 8,455 since 25/11/2007 |
| Creator |
June 30, 2009 ~ 12:35 AM ~
Yesterday Calypso's headstone was FINALLY placed!! Too late for her second birthday but just in
time for her 2 year angel day approaching on the 7th!
We all went out to the cemetery and fixed up her gravesite. On her 2nd birthday we buried her
ashes in the cemetery. The headstone installers surrounded it in the concrete for the foundation of
her headstone. So her ashes and lovies are all very safe now
♥ ♥ ♥ ʚїɞ ʚїɞ ♥ ♥ ♥
Calypso Paikea Rhyder Lane was born on June 14, 2007. She was 3lbs 1.9oz and 13" long. She was born
at 29 weeks 5 days gestation.
Calypso did well at first but on June 20th was diagnosed with NEC. NEC is an infection known as
Necrotizing Enterocolitis. It is a horrible infection that kills the lining of the intestines
rendering them dead. Calypso's infection spread to her kidneys. On July 7, 2007 we were forced to
take Calypso off of life support at 23 days old. She died at 3:50 pm.
Calypso was our last child.
When you feel a gentle breeze
caress you when you sigh
it's a hug sent from heaven
from a loved one way up high
If a soft and tender raindrop
lands upon your nose
they've added a small kiss
as fragile as a rose
If a song you hear fills you
with a feeling of sweet love
it's a hug sent from heaven
from someone special up above
If you awaken in the morning
to a bluebirds chirping song
its music sent from heaven
to cheer you all day long
If tiny little snowflakes
land upon your face
it's a hug sent from heaven
trimmed with angel lace
Love & BIG (((HUGS))) ~~ Jane...x♥x
Twinkle, twinkle star so bright,
Winking at me in the night.
How I wish that I could fly,
And visit you up in the sky.
I wish I may, I wish I might,
Have the wish I wish tonight.
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×°× `·.¸.·´ ×°x
SAND AND STONE
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TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE
THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING,
WROTE IN THE SAND
'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE'
THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH
THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE! AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.
AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:
'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE'
THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'
'THE FRIEND REPLIED
WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT'
LEARN TO WRITE
YOUR HURTS IN
THE SAND AND TO
CARVE YOUR
BENEFITS IN STONE.
THEY SAY IT TAKES A
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON,
AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM,
A DAY TO LOVE THEM,
BUT THEN
AN ENTIRE LIFE
TO FORGET THEM.
SEND THIS TO
THE PEOPLE YOU'LL NEVER
FORGET.
I JUST DID.
TAKE THE TIME TO LIVE!
DO NOT VALUE THE THINGS
YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, BUT VALUE
WHO YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE!
AND IF I HAPPEN TO GET IT BACK,
THEN I KNOW MY PLACE IN YOUR LIFE. X
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Always in our thoughts
Forever in our hearts
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X ♥ X ♥ X ♥ X♥ X ♥ X X ♥ X ♥ X ♥ X♥ X ♥ X
My silent child
our precious baby,
Close to my heart
I'll keep you with me.
An important job
God has for you,
There is love to give,
and work to do.
He needs an angel
strong but small,
To shine light on many
and give love to all.
Before you went
I gave you this,
half my heart
and one last kiss.
We miss you dearly
that we know,
But by God you were
chosen,
So to heaven, you had to go
Love Barbara xxxx
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…………..CANDLE OF LOVE
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Few people come into our lives
and make everything shine,
but you're one of those
rare and splendid jewels
who makes the whole world bright.
When I am sad, you make me smile.
When I am alone and blue,
you are there for me,
and you make me feel strong enough
to accomplish anything.
Because I appreciate
the many things you do,
more than words can say,
I'm sending you the Candle of Love,
and hoping you receive
many blessings from above.
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Please send the candle of love to someone
who has touched your life, and keep the flame
of love burning bright.
•:*:• •:*:• •:*:• •:*:••:*:••:*: ••: *:• •:*:• •:*:• •:*:•
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to my mummy
On this Mothers Day I find it
very very hard,
For I can not give to you
a special gift or card,
Because I am now an Angel
I live in heaven above,
But my Darling Mother
I always send my LOVE
We have a bond between us
that nothing can ever break,
I will stay beside you
Thats a promise I now make
You have always been so special
my darling Mother of mine,
I will go on loving you
Until the end of time.
miss you mummy xxxxxxx
Go ahead and mention my child
the one who died you know
don't worry about hurting me further
the depth of my pain doesn't show
don't worry about making me cry
i'm crying already inside
help me to heal by releasing
the tears that I try to hide
I am hurt when you just keep silent
pretending she didn't exist
i'd rather you mention my child
knowing that she has been missed
you ask me how I was doing
I say 'pretty good or fine'
but the healing is something ongoing
I feel it will take a lifetime
Love & BIG (((HUGS))) ~~ Jane...x♥x
Goodnight, my angel
Time to close your eyes
And save these questions for another day
I think I know what you've been asking me
I think you know what I've been trying to say
I promised I would never leave you
And you should always know
Wherever you may go
No matter where you are
I never will be far away
Goodnight, my angel
Now it's time to sleep
And still so many things I want to say
Remember all the songs you sang for me
When we went sailing on an emerald bay
And like a boat out on the ocean
I'm rocking you to sleep
The water's dark and deep
Inside this ancient heart
You'll always be a part of me
Lu-lu-lu-lu-lu-lu
lu-lu-lu-lu-lu-lu-lu-lu-lu
Goodnight, my angel
Now it's time to dream
And dream how wonderful your life will be
Someday your child may cry
And if you sing this lullabye
Then in your heart
There will always be a part of me
Someday we'll all be gone
But lullabyes go on and on...
They never die
That's how you
And I
Will be
We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new
We thought about you yesterday
And the days before that too
We think of you in silence
We often speak your name
Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part
God has you in his keeping
We have you in our heart
Thinking of you always ~~ Love Jane...x♥x
Few people come into our lives
and make everything shine,
but you're one of those
rare and splendid jewels
who makes the whole world bright.
When I am sad, you make me smile.
When I am alone and blue,
you are there for me,
and you make me feel strong enough
to accomplish anything.
Because I appreciate
the many things you do,
more than words can say,
I'm sending you the Candle of Love,
and hoping you receive
many blessings from above.
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Please send the candle of love to someone
who has touched your life, and keep the flame
of love burning bright.
·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:··:*:··: *:··: *:· ·:*:· ·:*:· ·:*:·
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Love & thanks for all your support xxxx
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